You need to understand we are in warfare over our loved ones. There is a divine strategy. Esther invited the King and the enemy to a banquet (Esther 5:4). Esther did not secure her victory by engaging her enemy, but by entertaining her King. We're going to defeat the enemy at the banquet table, while praising the Lord and feasting on the Word of God. So, carry out God's strategy and spend time entertaining the King!